I can understand where you're reservations come from, however not everyone is as sure of and concrete about gender identity and feelings as you are. I suppose I take a more neutral view. I do't care if osmeone uses them at, or to me, however if i get confused in audi speech then thats something i'd point out...

i suppose I dont' really care what tohers do, I wouldnt use them in daily conv but am generally not too fussed about them.

my main reservation is making a prat out of myself if i get it all horribly wrong as people are apt to do.

Laterz
Natalya